You've jumped in to a relationship with a man that you do not even know, who does not take care of his financeial responsibility for a child and you've done the unconscionable thing of introducing your own children to him before he's committed to you in all ways. Not only that but he's still very much involved with ex baggage that he's not yet come to terms with if he's still worried about 'rocking the boat."
Why do you have to wait while he doesn't... because you were foolish enough not to wait, thats the only reason.
In future please learn to wait at least a year of good relations and without a doubt feelings, until the honeymoon phase is over BEFORE you introduce your children to any other men. It's been proven that other men and women coming in and out of young lives is detrimental to their own emotional health. Think about what you're teaching them in the realm of relationships being disposable and that they're feelings don't matter when someone they have bonded with just up and leaves.
Wait it out with this guy. He's being smart by keeping his kid out of his romantic life.
Last edited by Wakeup; 09-12-13 at 01:49 PM.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion