Can you like someone you've only talked to is thru msn and by phone?
I don't know why but I like this girl very much, and the wierd thing is..I have never met/seen her before, I've only seen her on pictures but that's all. And she lives like 5-6h away from me. I mean..can you like someone you've never met?
..If "yes" should I tell her that I like her?? Or would that just be stupid?
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22-05-05, 07:01 PM #1
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Can you like someone you've never met?
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22-05-05, 07:12 PM #2
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Tell her you like her and you'd like to meet her, then maybe she'll agree and when you see her you'll either like her even more or put your mind at rest and realise she's not right for you.
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22-05-05, 07:53 PM #3
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yeah okay..maybe.
Would that really work? I mean 5-6h away..I don't think we would meet quite often then.
Maybe...once every two months? yes? no?
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22-05-05, 08:21 PM #4
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I don't think that matters yet. Meet her at first and find out what she's like, then decide whether you want to keep seeing her, and if you do then talk to her about it.
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22-05-05, 08:38 PM #5
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Why not? At least if you've seen her pics then it should be ok. You wont have trouble trying to imagine what she looks like like i did..
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23-05-05, 11:54 PM #6
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Liking and seeing are two different things. What is your intention? Do you want to see her because you feel there may be something more in this relationship, or are you in need of compassion and a good friend to talk to. If you want a good friend then why make the trip to see her. Keep the relationship low keyed as you are doing. What is the rush?
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24-05-05, 01:13 AM #7
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No you cant....
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24-05-05, 02:29 AM #8
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Are you serious?
Originally Posted by ALovelyLady86
Because I've never met you and I already know I wouldn't like you if I did.
Think about that one.
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24-05-05, 02:53 AM #9
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lol. That was kind of funny. You can "like" someone but not "love" them Originally Posted by Frasbee
"Why are you an atheist?"
"because I paid attention in science class."
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24-05-05, 02:55 AM #10
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Frasbee... no you dont
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24-05-05, 11:57 AM #11
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I say ask her if she would like to meet you sometime and if she says yea, then make plans and wait until you see her, and if you like her after you meet her in person, then tell her, but if you dont then dont say anything...someone might be a totally different person on msn or on the phone than they are in person...and personally i find long distance relationships really tough and almost impossible..perhaps it is better to find someone closer? its up to you though.
and NO, liking and loving are not totally different from eachother. love is just a more passionate word for like, but liking is just a measure of love.
fly on,
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24-05-05, 12:06 PM #12
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Originally Posted by Frasbee
good gawd that is funny. 
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24-05-05, 12:12 PM #13
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Frasbee; I'm noticing a pattern. You're kinda funny.
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24-05-05, 12:19 PM #14
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yeah, funny looking.
lol i just couldn't resist. yo se, malchiste.
you know i love you baby.
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Originally Posted by Loveboat
yeah I'd like to think that it could be more in this relationship than just being friends. I really like her..but but yeah she could be different in real than on tha phone or msn.
Yeah you're right, why rush? ..hum..maybe because this is the first time I really like someone? hehe..I don't know =/
