I met my now husband 7 years ago. We married 1.5years ago. When we first got together he told me his ex wife used to tell time to leave all the time and to get out. He, for a while now has told me that I would be better off if I l left him. That I could have a baby if I wasn't with him. That I would have money. That I should go. I ask him why he is saying that. I ask him does he really want me to leave, and he says no. Thing is he says it a lot.
He says sex is a huge part of a relationship, but I don't always want it. Some times I give in and do it just to please him.
When we met, I was shy and quiet. Now I am more outgoing and he has told me he doesn't like it. I have my own business and he says I am never at home. He doesn't want me to do it. When I told him I was going to go to a big christmas party he told me I couldn't go. He got so angry about it. He now says he wants to work in my business but I think he is just saying it so he knows what I am doing and when.
He texts me all the time asking me what I am doing, where am I, when am I coming home. He gets upset if I don't text him first. He says I spend too much time with my mum because I am not always home. I tell him I don't. I have a day job as well as my business. My mum happens to do the business too.
I just don't know what to do because sometimes we are great. I talk to him about it and everything gets better for a while but not for long. He is 16 years older than me, but he acts younger than me sometimes.
Am I over thinking everything?
I don't know how to feel anymore