Right or Wrong

[LoveCanHurt]

Someone says they are in a relationship and can't date now.
Yet they are looking, winking, liking multiple pictures and communicating with someone on a dating site, is that right or wrong?
(PS just wondering who agrees with my feeling on this.).

[searock]

If they are only saying that they are in a relationship to reject someone, and they aren't actually in a relationship, then they have every right to flirt with whomever.

If they are in a relationship, then it depends on the agreement they have with their partner. In a "standard" monogamous relationship, I think most people would agree that flirting with someone else would be wrong.

[LoveCanHurt]

OK ===The person says they are in a relationship and cannot date due to the relationship..but feels that initiating chats and flirting on a Dating site is just fine as long as they don't date the person in person.The key word to me is "Dating Site". If one is in a relationship what the H3LL are they doing playing around on a dating site...

[surfhb2]

How would we know? Why don't you ask them?

[3mK]

Just seeking attention from people this person would most likely not run into so they consider it harmless flirting?

[searock]

OK ===The person says they are in a relationship and cannot date due to the relationship..but feels that initiating chats and flirting on a Dating site is just fine as long as they don't date the person in person.The key word to me is "Dating Site". If one is in a relationship what the H3LL are they doing playing around on a dating site...

Do you know for a fact that they are in a relationship? And that they aren't just saying so in order to avoid unwanted attention? Maybe they just want to flirt and get some attention/nudie pics from strangers online, without having to date anybody.

If they really are in a relationship, then clearly that relationship has issues. In a healthy relationship, partners don't feel the need to seek attention (or anything else) elsewhere. If you are the woman that he is speaking to online, then why do you continue speaking with him if you believe him to be taken?

[michelle23]

Op get to the fecking point please. Jeez! Is this person your boyfriend? Is he on a dating site? If yes, why have you not dumped his ass. If no and this is some random loser on the site then why are you still talking to him or thinking about him? Why have you not just said f**k off a**hole and moved onto someone else..

[basilandthyme]

Michelle, here's the background http://www.loveforum.net/threads/86377-Crazy-Email?highlight=

What strikes me as "wrong" is you wasting time thinking about some dude you've never met who may or may not be in a relationship.

[michelle23]

Ok then take my latter advice and move the feck on

[smackie9]

He is totally blowin ya off.........he's not in a relationship.

[hatesthis]

Someone says they are in a relationship and can't date now.
Yet they are looking, winking, liking multiple pictures and communicating with someone on a dating site, is that right or wrong?
(PS just wondering who agrees with my feeling on this.).

It is definitely sneaky and suspicious to me. Maybe they think browsing dating sites isn't cheating?

[mollymari]

Someone says they are in a relationship and can't date now.
Yet they are looking, winking, liking multiple pictures and communicating with someone on a dating site, is that right or wrong?
(PS just wondering who agrees with my feeling on this.).

Yup, why would anyone want to date someone who is in a relationship yet trolling on dating sites. I'd say avoid.