Originally Posted by
kcydrebma
We've been together for more than one year. I'm 20 and he is my first real boyfriend. He's 25 and has had more than one long-term relationship. This has happened with every romantic picture (us hugging, kissing, posing like a couple) from us on Facebook . I never asked/mentioned anything about it. I'm not sure how to, without looking like an insecure girlfriend...
He is really active on Facebook, and when other girls he's friends with post a picture of them posing and making silly faces... He leaves it like that.
You're foolish if you don't ask him directly and with real curiosity why he would do that. You don't have to act insecure or needy. Any body would want to know why their S.O. would suddenly wipe any evidence of them from the face of social networking. Let us know what his reason for doing that is and then we can discuss. Until you know why HE did it and you've gotten the reason from HIM all you're going to do is mind screw yourself into angst and anxiety from hearing replies like michelle's jump to conclusion.
... and anastasis's take on it and he hates women... so yea... get asking the S.O. what the dealio is.
P.S. No matter what his reason for deleting... Ask him to put them back, that you like them there. If he hedges or gives you an excuse why he's not going to do that, then I'd say that odds are high that he doesn't want some other womEn knowing that he is partnered up already. Unless of course there is a really good reason why he can't. Let us know.
Last edited by Wakeup; 24-12-13 at 01:00 PM.
Reason: added last sentence :D
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