We've been together nine months, so this is our first Christmas together. Since his mom kept asking what I wanted for Christmas I know she got me a gift (she got me a birthday gift too), so when he and I were out shopping I bought them a gift basket. My mom bought him a Michael kors tie since she knew I was exchanging with his parents, and he was spending Christmas Eve with us she wanted to have something for him. I made sure to causally mention weeks ago that she had a gift for him, so he knew about it, and also knew that I had something for his parents (which I will be giving him tomorrow since I am spending Christmas Day there and he spent Christmas Eve here). I figured between those two things and common sense and manners he would clue in to pick up some thing for my mom, even a cheap small box of chocolates, but no. Tonight he showed up empty handed and I was SO embarrassed and mad. It's not like he's holding off until tomorrow, I'm driving myself to his parents house, so he won't see my mom until possibly New Years. I haven't said anything but I'm really unimpressed that he didn't get her anything. In my opinion it's just bad manners when you are going to be a holiday guest in someone's home and you know they got you a gift to not come with even something small to give in return.
Am I in the right to be mad here, or should it not be expected of him to get something? Should I talk to him about it? It's not like he can do anything about it now