somehelp is right. I mean it doesn't hurt to TRY but don't expect much.
For real though - do NOT waste money on pay sites. Yeah the commercials show nice couples but that is not reality.
Reality is more like -
"I am some fat ugly dude who sits around playing video games and I expect a model to come give me a blowjob".
"I am a fat ass woman with 4 kids who are my whole world and I want a rich husband who wants no sex and pays my way thru life"
Always remember that YOU are the most important person in your world.