Hello everyone. I just want to say thank you in advance for your posts. Well, my GF and I have been together for a year and half. I give her $325, because I think we are a family and she does need the help. She has two girls. Let me tell you about her, so you can get an idea of the situation. She is 45yo, her father was verbally and sexually abusive, her mom worked 2 jobs and too F'ed up to help. She raised her little sister, even leaving high school. She has work for everything she has gotten and tough as nails. She was cheated on by her ex, and I think she has given up on love and tends to be negative. That is what I love about her. I have also worked for everything I gotten, my parents had 5 kids (I was #2), so got forgotten a lot. Dad was too hard sometimes, I finish high school and my life was maybe a little easier than my GF. to the meat of the matter
Well my GF says she loves me, but not in love with me. I will say "I love you" and mean it, she will respond "Love you" but sometimes it sounds forced. I will text I love you, she responds "K U too". I will admit I am big softy and affectionate. She thinks I am needy. She tends to keep me at arms length. I feel that she is in love with me, but scared due to her ex. She is not the kind of person who will hug you and kiss you out of the blue. But is with her kids, I know they are her kids. I just need a outside POV give picture.
Thanks again