Originally Posted by
Fairyworld
So basically. I was with guy 1 and I feel in love with him. Everything was so good , but he was too busy he couldn't come see me and well we hardly spoke . So we broke up. We argued about pathetic things. We didn't speak for a while.
Right ... Guy 2 came along and well he was sort of my rock. My rebound I guess. I didn't love him and I thought I would be able too, he fell in love with me . I tried to tell him, I just wanted to be friends , but it just didn't happen. Guy 1 started talking to me again. Wanted to make things work. I was so so happy, thought this was it. I was still with guy 2 , kinda. And I was going to meet guy 1. He took forever too come see me , so I was with guy 2 still.
Guy 1 found out about guy 2 (the no each other. Went school together) well guy 1 went mad, he kicked off. He wasn't happy. We argued. We didn't speak.
Guy 2 and I finally just was friends .
That's when guy 3 comes along . (All three guys went school together) guy 1 suddenly start speaking to me again after ages. Guy 2 was angry that I got with guy3 so we argued. He cried , couldn't understand why I didn't love him. Guy 1 was angry I was with his friend. He wanted us to try again... But then found out I was with a new guy.
He deleted me on fb and everything cos he can't bare too see us together. He won't speak to me till I break up with guy 3 but he don't want me to just for him.
I'm in love with guy 1 and would do anything for him, but is it worth it , I'm not sure if it's just going to be the same before where he actually don't come see me or say that there is no point. I don't want to hurt anyone but that's what I am doing.
Should I break up with guy 3 and try again with the guy I actually love or should I fall in love again with guy 3 , forget about guy 1 ??? Help.
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