I'm really not sure what to do. I am currently under a great deal of stress. I have moved cities for my Masters, I am trying to find a job to help me fund this, I'm feeling extremely lonely at the moment and very stressed. This seems to have caused a complete loss of sex drive. It's driving me crazy as I am less than 3 months in to a relationship with a man I am very much in love with, I adore him and find him very attractive, but I have no desire for sex. I don't even want to masturbate. My boyfriend has been very understanding, but I know it bothers him. He is about to move cities to be with me and I feel awful that I am rejecting him all the time.
I am 30 years old and have had a healthy sex life for most of my sexually active years. I am currently not on any contraception. In my last relationship I went off sex because I didn't enjoy the things that my partner was into, but the sex with my new boyfriend (when I've been up for it) has been great. I can get into sex when it starts, but I never want to start it and don't want to force it as I know this will cause me to resent him. What I really want is to have my normal libido back.
Can anyone give me some advice?