What in the blazes is a relationship?

[anastasis]

Have you ever had a love relationship? I never have. Seriously. I can't even think of one time in my life, through grammar school, high school, university or now that I have ever been in love with a woman. I've heard about it. I've seen what it's supposed to look like on TV, but I've never felt it.

I've been wandering around this world for decades looking at these moronic people called women. I've been saying to myself, Self, surely one day you'll find one who is your counterpart and is unretarded. But it just never has happened. Now some of you cats are young and you're still in that stage that I call the 'idiot' stage. That's where you're all mushy gushy and that sort of time. Just wait till you're 37 and you've never felt LOVE for any woman in your entire life, but on the contrary pure CONTEMPT and LOATHING. You know how depressing that is? Seriously, I never thought it was going to be this way. Never could have imagined that society could get so completely Effed up.

At 37 something begins to happen to you. You really do begin to lose hope. Now all the delusional 30 somethings who are seeking 'relationships' are the same delusional sorts who were already delusional in their 20s and remain delusional to this day. The only thing different about them is about a decade. But they're still as retarded as they were then.

And all these people are talking about 'love relationships' after going through 2 divorces and who knows what kinds of one night stands. What in the HEll do THEY know about love relationships? They have proven that they only things they are qualified to maintain are disfunctional associations and flaky lego-technical contracts.

Think people who are married know anything about relationships? If they've been married for 30 or 40 years, maybe. But these little jokers who have been in something for 5 years and are having serious 'issues' don't know jack.

Does anybody even know what they are doing anymore?

I don't know what a love relationship is with a woman, because I've never found one worth my time or love. I don't claim to know. What bothers me is that so many others do claim to know when it is so readily apparent that they actually know less than I do about it.

[FlaCooln]

I think the beauty of it all is not knowing and finding/figuring it all out with that special woman. I agree with you in part that it very difficult to find your match/counterpart. I'm 32 and have been in love a few times, the longest was a 5 year relationship.

It's not easy to date women in my age bracket (28-35 or so), as many are damaged, have tons of baggage, and/Or drama. While I have zero baggage, no crazy exs, no kids, and a career. However, I still want to find that special woman and will keep living and enjoying life until I do.

[anastasis]

Oh, really? The beauty of it all is not knowing? Well, let me tell you 32 year old dude, when you get to be 65 and you still haven't found that 'beauty of not knowing' it might not appear so beautiful. In fact, you might find yourself saying, Wait a minute, I've been living a societal created delusion for the past 6 decades! WHEN IN THE HELL AM I GOING TO FIND THE BEAUTY OF FINALLY KNOWING? NEVER??!!!!

Yes, never. So now there is no 'beauty in not knowing', because now you know you're never going to know BECAUSE IT'S BEEN RUINED BY THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE F*CKING AWAY THEIR OWN LIVES AT THE EXPENSE OF OTHERS! LITERALLY!

Don't tell me about any 'beauty of not knowing'. My foot on that crap. I don't seen any beauty in being ignorant of something that is the Biblical definition of the THING THAT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE KNOWN, DAMN IT!!!!

The very first commandment in the Bible was to HAVE SEX WITH THE WOMAN YOU LOVED! THAT'S THE BEAUTY OF KNOWING THE LOVE THAT SHOULD BE KNOWN!! In fact, if there's only one thing worth knowing it's THAT.

I say BETTER TO HAVE NEVER LOVED AT ALL THEN TO HAVE LOVED AND LOST!

All you morons who have been in one relationship after the next and can never find love are the LOSERS OF THE WORLD!

I DID know what it was and kept it for someone worthy of it who I never found!

YOU PEOPLE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT IT WAS AND GAVE IT AWAY TO OTHERS WHO WERE AS UNWORTHY TO KNOW WHAT YOU STROVE TO KNOW BUT COULDN'T KNOW BECAUSE LOVE ISN'T WITHIN YOUR CAPACITY TO EXPERIENCE IN TRUTH!

[4 ratties]

Seriously go to counseling instead of attacking people online. All that person did was answer your post in a nice manner. U clearly are a bitter old man and obviously your not mr perfect because women run from u.

[anastasis]

Seriously go to counseling instead of attacking people online. All that person did was answer your post in a nice manner. U clearly are a bitter old man and obviously your not mr perfect because women run from u.

I am Mr Perfect. If I were Mr Wrong, women would flock to me. If I so desired, I could make them flock to me.

So either screw off, or stop being a troll.

And get some therapy for the love of throwing away your money on quack pseudo-science.

Thank you.

[Boisdevie]

I am Mr Perfect.

Yep, a perfect mysoginist.

[anastasis]

Yep, a perfect mysoginist.

Don't pull that mysoginist bullsh*t on me. Mysoginist is just a nazi feminist lesbian term invented to neutralize any contrary voice.

You don't like my opinion, and I like that you don't like my opinion. You need to be more tolerant and take it like a good girl right where you should.

[AnErin]

Anastasis, let's not treat ladies like Boisdevie rude.
I didn't care for her much at first but she seems to be a good woman.

BTW anastasis - tell us how you really feel! Preach it, kind sir!

[Boisdevie]

My guess is that you asked a girl out once and she turned you down. The end result is that you have been traumatised by the event. Or you're a cunt.

[4 ratties]

Haha troll nice one. I'm a decent member here. Not getting my personal issues out on strangers. Wtf are u talking about science? R u drunk right now?

[anastasis]

My guess is that you asked a girl out once and she turned you down. The end result is that you have been traumatised by the event. Or you're a cunt.

Is that the best you can do, France? Seriously?

Ok, I'll play. Let's say I'm a cunt. What do you suggest?

I mean, why not a dick? The perjoratives seem to be limited to either dicks or cunts. Perhaps an asshole.

However, there is one possiblity that doesn't seem to be taken into consideration.

WHAT IF WHAT I'M SAYING IS TRUE?

Just imagine for a moment...

Just play along...

What if....what...I'm saying...is...

The truth.

What are the social implications of that truth? And where does all this lead?

[4 ratties]

Your on a raaaaad trip man, ride it out

[anastasis]

Your on a raaaaad trip man, ride it out

I think meant 'you're', but yes..

[dem862]

Some people are incapable of feeling love. Just because you never felt it does not mean it doesn't exist.

[surfhb2]

Well it's pretty clear why you never found a lady.....what girl wants to deal with that kind of attitude?

I'd imagine this same attitude spills over into other parts of your life.