Girl I have been talking to has suddenly gone cold...help?

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Maybe it's best I do stay clear of her.

Sounds like she's making it pretty easy for you.

[southerngreek]

Sounds like she's making it pretty easy for you.

Maybe it's for the best.

I guess I'm just regretful I wasn't given the chance to see her after exams but was forced into it before they were over during so the stress.

Who knows. I may drop her a casual text in a week or two if I haven't heard from her then and go from there. If she's still not wanting to do dinner, then it's obvious she has no interest anymore.

[smackie9]

From the way he told it, it sounds like she was ****ed up before she told him to come meet up with her. Not denying that any of it is a red flag, I'm just saying he hasn't really shown much interest or made much effort, so why should she continue after a month. His reasons are valid, but they still don't change the situation.

Smackie, would you chase a guy around texting him, trying to get him to go out with you when he's only been able to see you once, and you had to threaten him? THAT'S desperate.

First off I wouldn't waste my time with someone who was unavailable in the first place, second I would never threaten a guy to meet up with me or else, even if I was shit faced, nor would I lower my standards and try to sleep with a guy I never been out with, in order to have him like me.

Alcohol is like truth serum and people tend to show their true colors when under the influence.

[southerngreek]

First off I wouldn't waste my time with someone who was unavailable in the first place, second I would never threaten a guy to meet up with me or else, even if I was shit faced, nor would I lower my standards and try to sleep with a guy I never been out with, in order to have him like me.

Alcohol is like truth serum and people tend to show their true colors when under the influence.

I told her she and I literally met at the worst time. I couldn't help I wasn't able to go out and spend loads of time with her until now, but she was unwilling to wait another week for whatever reason, maybe because she had plans this week, I don't know.

I'm just going to give her space and see what happens. She went from annoying me while I was busy to me I guess annoying her.

[southerngreek]

This girl is still sending me snap chats. When I told her two days ago that if she didn't want to ever hang out to tell me, so I can just stop wasting my time, she just responded "just chill out, we're fine."

I think she just wants a chase, at least that is my opinion. Once she finally got me, she lost interest and probably is already chasing someone else. I don't think I am going to respond to any of her snaps until she texts me again. Otherwise I am just letting her play games with me.

If her "friend" who came to town actually exists, then she will text me once they leave/she goes home for Christmas. Otherwise, I will know she was just lying.

[southerngreek]

Well, I asked her last night it she was back in town and she didn't even respond after responding to me earlier this week.

This is so strange. I felt guilty for not initiating more during my exam period and now it's silence. I'm beginning to think this was all a game to her. I just wish she had made her intentions clearer from the beginning.

At any rate, looks like I'm done with her.