So i've come to the conclusion that me and my partner are to break up
But every time i talk to her about it she bursts into tears and tells me really cute stuff about how much she loves me and needs to be with me
She begs me not to leave her and says she cant live without me and there is no one but me that she can trust
Most of her friends have dogged her over and im the only person in her life she can talk to and if i leave she will have no one
I cave in every time and can't bring myself to do it. It's happened 2 times. She has dropped out of uni and has no ambitions for the future and she is in a rough patch of her life at the moment, i consistently try to tell her to pick up a better job or pick up her course again but she never listens
What should i do?
i feel i should stay with her and support her through her rough time of her life but i have been for the last year and she still shows no signs of wanting to do anything with her life and i don't want a partner who will mooch off me for the rest of my life.
I told her that time apart could help her grow independently and maybe she might realize that she has to start supporting herself in her life and aim for something. She is a talented girl but she is throwing her ambitions and future away out of laziness and my support clearly hasn't helped her move out of her lazy comfort zone.
i love her but seeing her throw her future away hurts me and if i want to move out with her she has to start saving up which she surprisingly hasn't done considering she dropped out of uni and has loads of free time on her hands.
Help thanks