Please someone tell me do I have a legitimate gripe or am I just weird?
I have only had one serious relationship, which turned into a marriage and now is over. I'm 36 now and every girl I meet seems to already be involved to some extent with another guy. Or put another way, I haven't met a girl who isn't already sleeping with some one else.
My question is: how can I be okay getting to know a girl...spending time and all ... When she already has a guy she sees (sleeps with)? I've learned this is apparently normal... In your 30's it's rare to meet someone who isn't already involved with someone, at least on some level. But I really don't know how to open up and get to know someone on Tuesday who is having sex with someone else on Thursday. Am I odd for finding this difficult?