Did my boyfriend really mean what he said? Need a guy's perspective

[valeriegarcia18]

I was having a little chat with my boyfriend the last time we were together and I told him "I like you a lot but I don't think you take me seriously..." He responded with "No, no I do. I like you a lot too" Then after after that I sighed and just didn't say anything. We haven't addressed that since. Did he really mean to say 1. that he likes me a lot? 2. That he he does take me seriously? Or did he feel forced?

A LITTLE BACKGROUND ON OUR RELATIONSHIP: I've only had one other relationship but it wasn't that serious so I guess you can say this is my first "real" relationship. He asked me to his girlfriend after two weeks of knowing each other. We have been together for almost two months now. From what he's told me he's only had two other girlfriends before me so he's relatively inexperienced too. We see each other every weekend because of my busy schedule. I think the relationship is great. We don't talk/text everyday, maybe every 2/3/4 days, it really depends. I don't think it's necessary for us to talk all day everyday but it'd be nice if he would try a little harder sometimes. His communication can suck sometimes though. Everything is great when we're together but when we're apart, it just feels so distant... We've already been intimate, in fact we do it a lot lol We have a lot of fun. I don't see anything wrong with us having a lot of sex but some people have told me otherwise. They say it can hurt the relationship... Anyway, sometimes I feel like he takes me for granted. I feel like he does like me but he just doesn't care enough. I don't know if it's just me being insecure or if that's the way it is.

[BurritoBandito]

As These People Seem To Not Be Much Of A Help, I'm Just Going To Say That You Should Just Talk MORE Before Having So Much Sex. 2 Weeks Is Not Very Long, Especially If You Are Having Quite A Bit Of Sex Already! I'm A Guy, I Love Sex, And Even I Know When Too Much Is Too Much. If You Are Okay With It, Then By All Means Do What You Like, But If At This Point You Are Unsure If He Even Actually Likes You, You May Need To Lay The Line Down And Tell Him That You Need To Spend More Time With Each Other Before You Continue To Sleep With Him. This Will Show If He Is Willing To Spend Time With You Without Having You For Sex. If He Is Willing, Then He Probably Really Does Like You. If Not, Then Maybe He Is Using You For Sex. From What I've Heard, And What I've Felt In Past Relationships, A Guy Will Generally Make Time To Spend With You If He Really Is Into You...

How To Tell If He ay Not Be Into You Very Much:
-If He Comes Up With A Lame Ass Excuse To Not Spend Time With You Like, "Well, I Have To Um... Go To The Grocery Store After School So I Can't Hang Out With You."
-Downright Ignores You Before And After School Or Wherever You See Each Other On A Regular Basis.
-Does Not Make An Effort To Communicate With You

For The First One; Guys Will Always Be Guys And Will Feel Moody Or Tired On Certain Days And May Not Be In The Mood To Spend Time With His Girlfriend. That Being Said, If He Is Constantly Thinking Of Excuses Then He Clearly Either Has A Really Bad Mood Problem, Or He Just Doesn't Want To Hang Out With You!

For The Second One; You Are Probably In Trouble, Because If It Has Gotten To The Point Of Ignoring, He Does Not Want To See, Talk, Or Hear From You. Clear As Day That He Is No Longer Interested In You.

For The Third One; If He Is Not Really Willing To Text You Or Talk To You, Then Just Let Him Do His Stuff And Get Back To You. We Are Not Always Available To Talk. NOW, If He Never Texts Or Talks To You, Similar To The Last One, He Probably Doesn't Like You Anymore.

You Decide What You See In Your Boyfriend. Talking Every Two-Three Days Is Not Great, But It's Better Than Once Every Week! See If You Can Get Him To See You More. Once If Not More Everyday Keeps The Attraction Going. If You Start To Feel Annoyed By Him, Or Anything Else, That Is When You Need To Spend A Few Days Away From Each Other. Anger Leads To Fights As You Probably Know. If You Simply See Each Other And Have Sex, It's More Of Sex-Based Relationship. At Least That's Probably How He Sees It! Spend A While Around Him With These Ideas And See What You Actually Think Of Him. Good Luck!

Respond With Questions If You Have Them!

-Ian(Burrito)

[valeriegarcia18]

BurritoBandito

We've been together for two months. He does text me just not always. And we do have other activities that don't involve sex like dinner, the movies, etc. I recently went home for winter break (we're in college) and I live about an hour and a half away from him but made a trip and drove down for me. He booked a hotel so he could stay til the next day. We hung out, took a walk through the city, went to dinner and I ended up staying the night with him. I mean, you wouldn't make that trip for just anyone, especially if you didn't like them right? I don't know maybe I'm just being paranoid but I feel like he does care just not enough. I really do like him though. What would you suggest I do?

[BurritoBandito]

BurritoBandito

We've been together for two months. He does text me just not always. And we do have other activities that don't involve sex like dinner, the movies, etc. I recently went home for winter break (we're in college) and I live about an hour and a half away from him but made a trip and drove down for me. He booked a hotel so he could stay til the next day. We hung out, took a walk through the city, went to dinner and I ended up staying the night with him. I mean, you wouldn't make that trip for just anyone, especially if you didn't like them right? I don't know maybe I'm just being paranoid but I feel like he does care just not enough. I really do like him though. What would you suggest I do?

Well Now That You've Said This, I Would Say That Yes He Is Still Pretty Interested In You! Be Aware That Sometimes Guys Don't Know How Often Their Girlfriends Want Them To See Them. All Girls Are Different You Know! So, I Would Straight Up Ask Him. Ask Him If He Would Spend More Time With You Or Whatever So That You Feel Like He Cares! Letting A Guy Know How Often You Want See Or Communicate With Them Is A Big Help. It Was For Me At Least!

-Ian(Burrito)

[BurritoBandito]

And be sure he pulls out every time and does not ejaculate in your uterus increasing the chances of another unit added to the statistic of irresponsible, illegitimate births in the United States that lead to single mother disfunctional families that taxpayers are forced to fund increasing the power of the central socialist state.

YES, PLEASE DO THIS. You Do Not Want To Be Stuck As A Single Parent In College.

[searock]

Can somebody ban this troll already?

[Lord Darkshire]

Sorry for the rudeness, troll is taken care of.