A summary of how i met (let's call her Jojo) ..
It was Dec.21st, where i was suppose to go to the movies to see Hobbit, but another friend
called me to head to a Polish Christmas dinner .... so i cancelled the movie plans and went downtown.
Talked to a few girls, but wasn't too interested, until i decided to talk to her ... we talked for a long 1-2 hours.
She gave some in sight as she is looking for work, out of town.
I got her facebook and number ... and called her a few days after, and didn't like how she might possibly move to Calgary, if the right job came along, which is probably considering, which sucks because i really do like her personality .... since it was around Christmas and soon would be New Years, the first date would have to wait.
ANYWAYS ... First Date happened Sunday, January 5th, as i suggested Salsa Dancing, and she agreed to it.
She arrived at the social (i paid her entrance before she arrived), and we took the beginner class together ... i've had dance experience for a while, but i wanted her to experience one of my passions, even though she is quite new to it.
We got a bunch of physical contact through the Merengue, Kizomba, Bachata, and we practiced a bunch of Salsa that was taught during the lessons, and i gave her some tips to make it easier.
We stayed there for almost 3 hours, and she was about to go, but i thought that it would be nice to go somewhere to talk and went to the local bar, where it was decided that we'd share the Pasta, and i got a Caesar Salad.
Got into a deep conversation about her education, and how she had co-op aboard, we shared our various interests we enjoyed, what music we like nd movies we've seen ... i added that i lost all this weight, and how i am organizing for some meetup groups, which i didn't know she was part of
I just started Rock Climbing, but she's really into it and we talked about that ... how she did a few marathons and how i'm going to compete in the SPARTAN RACE and how i'd have to change my diet.
sheThere was probably more to add, but i'll leave it at that, and after we finished our food, she went to the washroom and i asked for the bill and paid the bill + tip before she arrived, so we can be on our way faster.
I asked her, if i could drive her home and she mentioned how it isn't in my direction, but i said "I wouldn't have asked, if i didn't want too" .....
Another great conversation in the car, and we arrived at her door, and we hugged for the night
( i mentioned how we should do this again, and i suggested Rocking, and she was up for that )
ARRANGiNG DATE #2 .... so, i called her Tuesday Afternoon (i received a text last night about maybe doing a hike instead of the Rock Climbing), I thanked her for the fun filled Sunday, and what has she been up too ... she
looked up a meetup for a hike that would last 3 hours, and wanted to know if i'd be up for that ... explaining the type of terrain there is and how it isn't the easy trail ... but i am all for that, going for something interesting to see and experience.
We discussed about probably doing a Hike first, then Rock Climbing afterwards (she has shoes and harness, i'll be renting) ... and is all up all up for that, and i think it'll be an awesome day ....
P.S. I am thinking about buying flowers, chocolates, and a card to read later to bring inside her house, when i arrive at her door, holding them behind my back.
i will go for the holding hands during the hike, and give her a tap on the ass during rock climbing, whenever she completes a climb, or is ready to go up.
As we get heading back to her home, i'll get out of the car with her and say goodbye by the door, and as she is ready to go in, after probably a hug, i'll mention that she forgot something, and if she'd let me find it ... and i'd make her leave the direction of her door a few paces, and say that, "i think found it", turning her body with face meeting my lips into a kiss from me finally, because i really do feel something for her ...
**** after keeping in my attraction all this time... i think it'll be the right time to do it at that moment and i have nothing to lose after showing her the type of person i am, and sharing in these various moments together.
Whatever happens after that, will be up to her, but i am hoping for a good outcome, and we can continue.