Need help on my relationship.

[Sweetu]

I am new to this forum and I want help guys on my personal life.
I met this girl 2 years ago during exams, she sat beside me. Anyway, that was my meeting with her, we talked till the exams were over and she gave me email address to chat. We chatted for some 2 months and got separated [life is busy isn't it?] After a year she sent friend request on facebook and phone number. We talked a lot through phone for hours. After 3-4 months I lost my phone when I sat in an internet cafe and I messaged about that in fb. She said she also lost phone when she was playing badminton. After that incident we started chatting through facebook and we got really close. She used to say love you, miss you and all those romantic words. I thought that she was in love with me. So, after some weeks I proposed to her but she said we are only friends. When I asked her why she didn't accept, she said that she doesn't want to hurt her parents. Now she is not close to me and I misunderstood her a lot. We used to fight on facebook and I used to unfriend her. But next day I used to get apologies. I tried everything to make her accept me but she doesn't accept me and says that I am her best friend and an very important person in her life. I met her on my birthday which was on 21st Dec. She talked very close [very open] I don't know how to make her feel I love her truly and how to make her accept. Please give any suggestions guys thanks in advance. You can ask any questions regarding this matter.

[Sweetu]

any one help me please

[fairydust28]

Have you actually seen each other during the time you have been talking on facebook? a proposal wqas probably pushing it too far maybe? If she says you are her best friend then maybe her saying she loves you and misses you means as a friend? im a woman, my best friend of 14 years is a guy, we say "love u" all the time. Because we do love each other, as friends. You need to speak to her to understand what she sees you as in her life

[caringperson]

Seems like you got stuck in the so called "friend-zone".
I think you should keep talking to her as a friend, but let her go.
As in.. if you find another girl you like and she likes you, go for that one since you know that this one only wants to be friends.

So, you told her how you feel and she told you she doesn't feel the same right?
If that is right: Stay friends unless she changes her mind and confesses back to you.

[Sweetu]

Thanks a lot! I will try to be friends with her. She also said that she loves me as friend

[4 ratties]

She's confused, help her understand

[heartsnflowers]

you can keep trying and trying if there is any chance she is attracted to you in that kind of way i think she will give you guys a chance. do something sweet and spontaneous. be romantic. if she is worth it.