I was in a relationship for a year, only 2 months after we get over the one year mark. My now Ex Girlfriend goes to another country to see her family. Now she does this every year so I had nothing to think of it. I missed her alot for Christmas but I was happy to know she was happy out there.
She comes back from her vacation to tell me on the phone that me and her need to talk. She comes over the next day to talk to tell me that she does not love me the same way I love her she just does not feel it. I could hear in her voice that their was something more too it. I got her to tell me what was wrong and she said when she was out there she cheated on me.
When me and her first got together a year before I asked to never cheat on me if she ever wanted to break up just tell me but no she could not do that. I don't know why it took her a year to figure out she did not love me the way I love her.
She then cried and and said she still wants me to be her friend she said she can't see her life with out talking to me everyday. I don't understand how can you say you don't love me the same way I love you but still say you can't see your life with out talking to me.
I bought her a ring because deep in my heart I felt she was one and that who year she showed nothing about she did not love me. She tells me how she wishes she could make her heart love me but she can't.
why would it take some one that long to figure out they don't love some one the same way you love them. She says she loves me and cares about me but not as a woman loves a man.