Whenever this topic comes up, I notice how cynical, bitter and greedy some men are. I wouldn't marry a man with an attitude like that. Men b**tch and whine about how unequal or unfair the divorce is on them but do you expect someone else to provide for YOUR children? That is the main reason why the woman walks away with more in some cases because there are children in the middle who NEED to be looked after. They need a roof over their heads, clothes on their back, food in their belly and a good education and as the father-you are obliged to pay for half of that! And I also notice the men b**tching and whining about it are single who don't have kids or have never been divorced and say they would never marry for this reason.. well good because when you get married you are not supposed to be preparing for a divorce