IMO: if you would like to do this when u have no children involved in the picture be my guest but when u have children it becomes a different story even in the privacy of your own homes ot behind closed doors. Children see and hear everything! They will find your porn, guns if not secured, vibrators drugs and you know what show of to there friends, at an age as early as 5 trust me i know. Be aware that they are aware they also have instincts and most adults dont pay attention and think that they are off in toyland. You must not be selfish this is selfish all for sex, when u have children you make a choice to put them first at the very leats for the next 18 years. If i were you i would wait till you can be mature enuf to put your sexual greediness aside. Life has enough twist and turns without having to create more. Oh and my spelling sux but im ina rush.
It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone"
People change and forget to tell each other.