Hi Guys, I'm basically wondering how you would react in the following scenario:
You're in a long term relationship & are generally happy. You then get to know another woman who is a family friend. You're very attracted to her, immensely. You get on so well & have a connection between you both. You become friends & care for one another.
You both make it clear you care & are attracted to one another. What would you do & how would you react when this friend tells you it's you that she wants to be with?
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21-01-14, 06:09 AM #1
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In relationship yet feelings towards another woman
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22-01-14, 06:10 PM #2
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I would cut all contact with the other person and focus all my energy on my partner. I would never cheat or leave for someone else. I would only leave if I am unhappy and the relationship is not working and then I would spend at least 6months alone to figure out the next chapter in my life before hopping into something else
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22-01-14, 07:29 PM #3
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What is with you and all these 'what if' type threads, sophie?
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23-01-14, 03:57 AM #4
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Just immense confusion!!!
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23-01-14, 04:56 AM #5
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Why don't you just tell us your story and we can address it directly instead of all this beating around the bush?
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23-01-14, 09:14 AM #6
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Yes please just get to the point
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24-01-14, 11:51 AM #7
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Ok! I'm married & it's a v frustrating one. I've fallen in love with a friend who is also in a relationship. I've been so so so confused with regards to how he feels as he avoids the topic & won't meet me alone despite stating that he cares for me, is v attracted to me & is aware we have a special bond. This has been going on now for over 2 yrs & I'm exhausted by it all
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