Hey!
Bah, this is a tough one. I've been dating this girl for just under a month, she's cool, easy to hang with, fairly pretty and is really into me, I have no issues in with trust etc.
That sounds perfect, and is what I've been looking for, but I dunno, I just don't feel 'excited' around her.
Now I'm not sure if it's because we've moved too quick, she already leaves a towel and a pillow at my place and calls me 'her man'. I'm not being scared off because she's too clingy,
I want a serious relationship, but it just worries me that I don't feel a buzz to see/hear from her?
I also don't feel as though she makes much of an effort, she showers at mine after work and then will just chill out in tracksuit bottoms/jumper, very rarely bothers with make up or getting dressed up.
Now I realise how shallow that might sound, but I genuinely don't know what to do. Half of me wants to keep seeing her, but the other half doesn't wanna lead her on incase these feelings don't go away.
What really worries me is that I keep thinking if I had a chance with another girl, I'd take it and that's not me. In previous relationships I don't even look at other girls when I'm seeing someone.
Maybe I'm just over thinking things, but im just not sure if it's a good thing that were so comfortable after only a month, I feel like I'm getting bored.
Any advice would be appreciated!
Thanks.