This is my first post to the forum. You will have to excuse me, if I ask some rather naïve questions. I have been out of the dating game for 11 years....but that is another story.......
Three months ago I met a lady who I had about 15 dates with. She eventually told me that she didn't want to see me anymore. She was a rather bad at lying and not very good at hiding the truth either. But I gave her a chance and it was nice to get out the house
Her behaviour was odd......but to cut a long story short.....this is what she was doing:
Getting drunk, on dates with one guy and having sex with him...........then meeting up with another guy and unloading all her emotional / problems / difficulties on him whilst leading him on in a sexual way.
You can probably guess, I was the guy not getting the sex I can understand that if a women has a lot of problems she might frighten the guy away who she was getting the sex from, but can anyone tell why else she does this? She told me she doesn't have many female friends and her best friend doesn't speak to her anymore.
Do you think what she does is wrong or acceptable today? If you think it is wrong do you think I should tell her that she needs to stop messing around and find one man for everything? Or is it it none of my business?
Unfortunately, I am not taking about a teenager, or a women in her early twenties, she is a 40 year old who has never had a child.
What do you think?