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Thread: Deal with loneliness or go out with the WRONG guy?

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    Deal with loneliness or go out with the WRONG guy?

    There's been a guy that's been trying to flirt with me for awhile
    he saw me about once or twice and he barely knows me
    but he's been texting me for a month and he has been really passionate and straightforward about his feelings towards me

    But he's not my type and most of all, I don't trust him.
    So that's why I've been avoiding all of his date offers.

    but here's the thing

    I broke up with my ex 3 months ago and I've been feeling really lonely these days
    So would it be a good idea just to try going out with him so that I'll feel less lonely for awhile?

    People tell me that all experiences are worth a shot.
    The more I date, the more I'll know about men.

    But on the other hand, I keep on asking myself the same question: Can I really not survive without a man by my side?

    Is this loneliness going to get better?
    Have a feeling it's going to get worse as I see my friends making valentines chocolate for their loved ones while I'm stuck home watching TV.

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    I think you should do both.

    First off, be OK with yourself as a person, and learn to stand on your own feet, without the help of others. I think a big part of life is learning to be OK with being alone. After all, we came into this world alone and we will leave it alone. Focus on becoming the person you want to be, and good things will follow.

    Secondly, if you don't want to date this guy, then don't. However, all experiences can be used to learn from, and if you feel like giving him a chance, then go ahead!

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    Id rather be alone and wait to meet someone great then to date the wrong guy. Theres all kinds of lonlieness and it can be even lonlier with the wrong person than being by yourself

    If you don't trust this guy-stay away from him. Its not worth it. If you start sleeping with him-you will probably get attached and then your up s**t creek without a paddle coz you know your not going to get the commitment you crave from him.

    Why put yourself through more pain by falling for mr wrong? Keep looking for mr right
    Last edited by michelle23; 06-02-14 at 08:15 AM.
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    You don't know this guy.....how can you say you don't trust him?

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    Don't go out with him if you don't want to get to know him better... Why would you lead someone on like that? He's not an emotional teddy bear. He's a human being.

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    Lonely in what way? Do you not have friends, or are you trying to say you need some action?

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