Well about 12 years ago my mum and dad where happily married, well turns out they werent so 'happily' married.
My dad was having an affair with my grandma (my mum's mum)
So ye, found out around 2 years ago now. But how do you forgive someone after that!!
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13-02-14, 05:48 PM #1
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So how about this shocker for you :/
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13-02-14, 06:02 PM #2
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That's disgusting. Forgive but I wouldn't have shit to say to either one of them dirty bastards.
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13-02-14, 06:09 PM #3
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^^^^^ same here
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14-02-14, 12:05 AM #4
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Don't think you can ever truly forgive that.
"Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".
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14-02-14, 12:55 AM #5
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Damn. I don't know who I would want to kill first.
A life lived in fear is a life half lived-Spanish Proverb
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14-02-14, 03:55 AM #6
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probably the hardest thing to forgive and relatives in my family have done the same thing. Grudges die hard and forgiveness is difficult in this situation because it is so up close and personal.
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14-02-14, 05:30 AM #7
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Man that's nasty.
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14-02-14, 07:00 AM #8
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How do you forgive for something like that? Well you realize that it hasn't affected you in anyway, realize that they still love you like they always have and that its between the three of them whether or not they can forgive one another for what went down. None of them; your mother, your father or your grandmother love you any less even though your father and grandmother made some pretty fkd up decisions with their lives.
You say you found out two years ago but the affair happened 12 years ago:
Does that mean your parents have been separated/divorced since the discovery?
Have you been unable to forgive for two years?
Have you thought about getting some councilling to help you?“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
