Love or not ?

[baddy]

Been togheter with this girl for over a year and we have talked about everything to each other. Our chemistry the first time we met was great and since then she has shown interest in me.

Now, i drove her from a party so she could talk to me for awhile. We talked, and i asked her if she liked a guy called "Martin" she said "No". Then she said "Do you want me to prove it? okay here it comes" then she kisses me and says that the only person she has had feelings for is me. She said that "Martin" tried to make her horny and have sex with her and she did not want to.

Anyways...I felt like i was high on something, never felt this feeling since i was 10 years old. We kissed and kept talking and then i drove her back to the party. The guy that trowed the party was "Martin" and she was going to sleepover there at the laundry room.

When i came home i sent her a really long message (like the a note from the bible) and got a really awesome and good loving message back. This is one of the first SMS messages we have ever done.

Next weekend i asked her if she wanted to hang out with me again and she said that she was going to a party. I asked her if she needed a driver and she said "No, im fine" like she did not want me to drive. She also said that she wanted to meet me but then i said that it was to late.

Next weekend i asked again if she wanted to hang out with me. She told me once again that she was partying, but this time she was at "Martins" house AGAIN.. She said that she was going to call me if she needed a drive home from me. Later that night she never asked me if she wanted me to drive her. I called her and she said that she was still relaxing at "Martin" house and that she is going back home. (As she was hiding something)

Later that night i sent her a SMS where i said that i do not love her and that i dont have feelings for her. I have waited over 6 days and still she hasnt replied to the message, like she does not care.

This weekend i tried to make it all good again by calling her when i was drunk and i said "Im sorry for the message i sent you" and she said that she was fine. Next day when i was sick i called her and she said "Im sorry, but i cannot talk right now,my mom is next to me" I said "okay" and she said "Im going to call you in a little while" As i waited and waited, no reply or calls. Why is she doing this to me ? Am i being dumped or just horribly tested ?!?

[smackie9]

She's a lying attention whore/slut.....not sure why you can't see the bullshit she has been providing you. I bet money on it she sleeping with the guy. It's just that he's not providing the attention she craves so she gets it from you.

Yes you are being dooped....bamboozled......scammed, etc.

like I always say, if it doesn't feel right, it's not. Go by their actions and not by what they tell you.

[baddy]

Wow, you are the best ! I found out that she has even had sex with my bestfriend. I will keep away from this slut at all times ! Thank you !!

[smackie9]

Hey nothing wrong with a slut, they do serve a purpose if you are looking for no strings attached. But you sound like you are looking for something more serious. Best of luck finding that lucky girl!