Originally Posted by
TheEvilJester
Show me a person who can say they have never unfairly lost their temper on someone and I will show you a huge liar (hint, they'd be the same person).
For what it's worth, my hubby has never lost his temper at me (in 20 years). Neither fairly or unfairly. Not even when I got the holiday dates confused and our family missed the international flight and we had to buy new plane tickets for 4. I'm not quite as good - I ranted at him once when he drove drunk.
Mark, I guess you will have to figure out if this type of behaviour is a deal breaker for you. My first consideration is how often this type of behaviour happens. If it's twice a year, you'd probably be best to live with it. If it's weekly, she needs to understand that it's unacceptable to you
Lastly, an apology doesn't cut it unless it's matched by a change in her behaviour. I just hate when people apologise and then repeat the mistake...to me, it voids the previous apology.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.