So my ex GF will text me out of the blue every once in a while. Usually it's just general stuff seeing how I'm doing etc. Last week after six weeks of no contact I get a text about her car that needed work, months ago I told her that needed to be taken care of. We exchanged a few simple texts again, that was it I thought. Then this past Sunday she texts again, and we ended up texting all night. Her texts to me seemed to be if she was fishing for compliments "you know I'm a nice person ?" "You know how I am better than most". It was enjoyable and of course I got some feelings stirring up again, because I do really care for her ! At the end of conversation I told her it was odd that she wanted to text and talk, but I did enjoy it, her response was "I was nervous all night, and I enjoyed it also"
So next day I asked if she was seeing anyone, and why after six weeks no contact she comes back in my life ? I have not received a response on either simple questions. So now I'm not sure what to to think ? I do know I can't keep doing this unless I get some kind of straight answers from her.
So my question is how do I go about telling her either tell me what your thinking or please leave me alone ?
I don't want to be mean at all, but just seems she doesn't get how her contacting me whenever she sees fit affects me and stirs up feelings again.
Any help in any area would be greatly appreciated !
Thank you