Does he like me as relationship material?

[Glamvineflower]

Guy at work that I found annoying at first.
Type that others may find rude and irritating.
But I can still tell he's not dumb and that he's actually a good guy.
He comes to my desk often and cracks stupid jokes all the time and makes me laugh but I've always been a bit mean to him and even told him about the guys I've been dating.
He keeps on asking me in detail about what these guys look like, do etc.
And whether I am going to continue seeing them. I guess I leave him hanging as I am never clear.
He also asks me for relationship advice about a girl he likes that he's just met emphasizing that "it's not YOU" to me, and says that he's not sure whether to say or show it because he doesn't like rejection.
He touches me a lot in teasing ways (not sleazy) and offers rides home and drives me to work related tasks. When I told him about my mom being sick and me having to visit her often he suggested that he will always drive to the hospital for me and will help me saying "we will get thru this." But more in like a dominant "youshouldworkhard" kind of tone. More like suggesting that if he's in a relationship with me, he will help me. He hasn't actually done the helping yet. And it's hard to tell whether he is sincere or not or just trying to sound impressive.
But he doesn't push anything further maybe occasional texts/calls but nothing regularly, and I don't see him at work everyday because I work part time.
Even though I accept all this in a teasing voice and I'm tough to him, I'm curious as to whether he is just attracted to me and wants to sleep with me like other typical boys or if he actually wants to be in a relationship with me. Some may be clever enough to pull off the "caring and considerate" mask and act really well to sell themselves, though I don't get a strong vibe that he's a player..
Coworkers tell me they think he likes me and I know that these signs may tell me he's into me but I just want to know if he's seriously liking me or if he's just one of those boys trying to get my attention because I seem hard to get.
He is quite outspoken so who knows if he's doing the same to other girls.
Do you guys think he truly likes me?
I guess just the fact I'm writing abt him means I am a little interested as well, but I have many doubts because I don't trust men easily.
What should I do if he is genuine?
I don't want to rush anything but I don't want him to give up and go away either. When I'm serious a abt a relationship, I like to focus on one man only, so I wanna know if he's worth my time.

[Mattiemae]

Well you're saying you're both mean, so not sure what that really means in a relationship except can lead to disaster. Really look at how he treats other people. Most likely he will treat you the same way. You won't be an exception. Really didn't get the love vibes to much here except you both work together laugh and crack jokes and talk about relationships.

I would get to know him a little better before thinking to much into it.

[basilandthyme]

Usually when everyone around thinks that someone else is annoying, rude, irritating etc there is a good reason. If you choose to ignore this warning, you must proceed at your own risk.

Please remove your rose coloured glasses.

[soulsacr]

I would suggest getting to know him better before proceeding with any relationship unless you are out for a good time. If he can't be serious enough for you to read him and see what he's about then maybeyou have your answer if you're looking someone who is relationship material