i have a problem please help...

[gocryemokid]

Okay, when i masturbate, literally i ejaculate in 30secs-1min... I dunno what to do when i first have sex :-/, any help to increase stamina would be greatly apprecaited. Thanks in advance.. and im curious if i would have more in a sex situation... or is it just masturbating that is quick etc...

[Junket]

First of all.

How old are you?

How long have you been masturbating?

When do you intend on actually having intercourse?

And a good way to desensitize your dick is by jerkin' off often.

FYI, you'll probably bust a nut in less than thirty seconds anyway once you get it in somethin' hot wet and warm for the first few times.

[gocryemokid]

First of all.

How old are you?

How long have you been masturbating?

When do you intend on actually having intercourse?

And a good way to desensitize your dick is by jerkin' off often.

FYI, you'll probably bust a nut in less than thirty seconds anyway once you get it in somethin' hot wet and warm for the first few times.

Im 17, i use to masturbate alot but i stopped over the last year , only doing it 1-2 a month but like 3 years ago alot.... so is their a way i stop for a while and it gains it stamina bak or like jerk off before sex? or what? Help plz.... i dont want screw over my sex life ><

[COAD]

WOW! 30 secs to 1 min.....
There are these pills that make you last for hours lol.... Try those (I didnt try em, but satisfaction is guranteed).

Anyways, for me it takes forever to ejaculate anyways so.............

[BlackRose]

Pills should always be your last resort on anything. They should never be the initial answer to your problem. Anyway. Start by sitting down and masturbating. Go slow. You are probably jerkin off so fast you are bound to come in a minute. Move your hand slowly up and down for a few minute and then switch to playing with your balls. Again, go slow and make sure if you feel like you are about to come, just back off for a minute. Keep doing this for a while. Eventually try to work yourself up a few minutes every day you try. Like Fras said, masturbation desensitizes the penis so set aside a half hour at least every other day to do this. It probably wont take that long at first, but hopefully one day it will take that long and then longer. Anyway... Let us know how that works.

[misombra]

try this--- you know how you have to squeeze to hold your pee? well practice doing that every day. squeeze squeeze squeeze. then when you're about to cum, squeeze and the more you do this exercise, the longer you'll be able to last.

[COAD]

BlackRose......
What do you know about masterbating....?

LOL YOUR A GIRL!!

[King Zarathu]

she's sucked more dick then a broke hooker who needs cash.

btw, misombra's idea was totally ridiculous--but i assure you it's 100% TRUE!!!

it's called the PC muscle, you can look it up on google. i forgot what PC stands for, it's some long latin piece of shit word, but it's the muscle used when you stop pissing right in the middle of it. it hurts eh? keep doin it and eventually you'll feel less pain. ppl have achieved like 12 hour ****-a-thons by doin that, it's good shit

[keegho]

try this--- you know how you have to squeeze to hold your pee? well practice doing that every day. squeeze squeeze squeeze. then when you're about to cum, squeeze and the more you do this exercise, the longer you'll be able to last.

That is just totaly wrong...this will affect your prostat and make serious problems to it. U can have prostat cancer in the end. Dont hold the cum inside. Its very very dangerous. The cum that stays inside infects the prostat and makes it instead of a small spongy material it will turn by time to a large hard stone like material. And will turn from the size of a table tennis ball to a tennis ball. I am serious i knew this from a doctor. DONT HOLD CUM INSIDE.

[misombra]

That is just totaly wrong...this will affect your prostat and make serious problems to it. U can have prostat cancer in the end. Dont hold the cum inside. Its very very dangerous. The cum that stays inside infects the prostat and makes it instead of a small spongy material it will turn by time to a large hard stone like material. And will turn from the size of a table tennis ball to a tennis ball. I am serious i knew this from a doctor. DONT HOLD CUM INSIDE.

you're not holding cum inside you dope, you're keeping yourself from cuming. it's an exercise that you do not only when you're cuming but all the time.

[Junket]

BlackRose......
What do you know about masterbating....?

LOL YOUR A GIRL!!

So she knows her stuffs.

No 'arm in that.

[gocryemokid]

so what do i do please. help, this is ****ing stupiddd, im actually worried

like seriously, is this a big deal, or nothing to worry bout, cuz i can tell u the rest of my life is going superb!!!!

[keegho]

you're not holding cum inside you dope, you're keeping yourself from cuming. it's an exercise that you do not only when you're cuming but all the time.

mmmm....maybe...but ueh...i dont like that feeling. And i am afraid a lot more of this and u cant cum in the end. hehe

[misombra]

i'm not sure you're hearing me correctly, allow me to be more clear... you're not holding your cum back, you're prolonging yourself. the exercise should be done not just when you're having sex. just every now and again squeeze that muscle for a few minutes squeeze and release, squeeze and release, etc. just when you're sitting there doing nothing. and then when you're masturbating or having sex and you feel like you're about to come then squeeze that muscle, and the stronger that muscle is the better you'll be able to squeeze, until you don't feel like you're going to cum anymore. the stronger that muscle is the longer you'll be able to last with this technique. then eventually when you want to cum you just release that muscle and let it go. believe me, you'll be able to cum in the end, it'll just be a lot better!

was that more clear? you're not holding cum inside, you're not cuming at all.

here's an interesting ebook i found that explains lots of methods to go longer. it's a big graphic and sometimes reads like erotica (and it's a bit long) but there's good stuff in there. [url]http://www.ebook.za.net/ejecmaster.pdf[/url]

[Junket]

so what do i do please. help, this is ****ing stupiddd, im actually worried

like seriously, is this a big deal, or nothing to worry bout, cuz i can tell u the rest of my life is going superb!!!!

You're fretting over nothing.

Especially since it seems you're not even involved in a sexual relationship.