you'd think not wanting to be a 34 year old virgin next would be his incentive for change! he cannot be happy with himself and his life as it is that misery should be his motivator. is he sensitive or does he just not want anyone to discuss real things with him so then he can hide from the truth and never make any changes for the better? i'd tell him don't let the "too sensitive" stop you. time for this dude to get to changing his life and live.
When I tell the truth, it is not for the sake of convincing those who do not know it, but for the sake of defending those that do.
William Blake