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Thread: Girl flirting after ignoring me for 3 months..????

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    Girl flirting after ignoring me for 3 months..????

    Story: A few months ago I started my new job. One of the girls was cute so I tried to introduce myself with a plan of chatting her up a bit. I don't remember the exact reaction. I just remember it was void of trying to make any connection back. I thought maybe she was shy and reserved but when the other guy who was starting that day arrived she warmly greeted him.

    It bothered me a bit but, thought it is what it is. We preceeded to have a very platonic business like work relationship. I would say good morning, and ask for things I legitimatly needed. Nothing more.

    After about a month one day, she asks me if I was going to lunch and she wanted to walk with me. She said she wanted to talk more with me because she needed to improve her english. I was like, "Okay that's fine." She was ahead of me in the lunch line. By the time I had my food she had put her trey down on a table and was getting a drink. I walked to the very back table so I could watch ESPN. She moves her trey all the way back to where I'm sitting and asks me why I'm sitting there instead of where she was. I told her I always sit there. She then starts asking me for advice on an interview she had coming up. I think this was probably just a legitimate favor that she needed as I am the only native english speaker in my department.

    After this we are marginally more friendly with each other over the next 6 weeks as she recieves the transfer to a neighboring department. Still not saying much to each other than basic niceties.

    Within the last week she pulls a 180 out of nowhere. Flirting with me every day. Touching me. Giving complaments. I don't get what has changed. I left nothing out of this story. I keep trying to think of some possible cause. Do girls just change their minds about someone they didn't like before?

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    I don't think she changed her mind, as much as she started getting to know you. Ask her out next time you talk to her, and if she says no, go back to only speaking to her when necessary.

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