So me and my ex broke up around 2 months ago. She is now seeing someone else that showed an interest in her when we were together. This guy is older, much better physique and much better car, looks etc.
This girl was my life, would regularly tell me I was the one and she had never felt love until she met me. I was her beautiful baby and she would never ever leave me.
She broke up with me citing that I didn't appreciate her enough and didn't make her feel loved which in some ways I accept responsibility for.She wasnt an angel either and there were some things that I felt she took for granted. (moved her in to my home when parents kicked her out)
Since the split I have tried absolutely everything, sentimental gestures, flowers to the workplace, funny pictures, memories and non of this has worked. She has been horrible to me for most of the break up and its like I don't even know who she is anymore.
Her last two relationships lasted around the same period of time (1 year 4 months) and the same outcome occured, both of her previous partners were heartbroken.
I have tried myself to better myself since the split (focused on driving, taking care of appearance, new suit, getting stuck into work) this is to show her that I can change and I do want to be with her. She knows how much I love her.
We have since been in Limited contact over the last couple of days, we have spoke and had really nice conversations and made each other laugh, her new guy was mentioned a couple of times but nothing of any significance.
I decided to call her last night because I was having a bay day. She dosent answer. So i call again (have been last few days) and she answers with "what? I'm busy at the moment, I'm in bed....I said so why cant you talk? she said "because I'm with someone" Straight away I asked her if it was him and she said "yes".
She called me when he left and I explained I didn't think it was as serious as that. She said she sees him once a week and it dosent matter that he was here.
It absolutely destroyed me to know he was at her house, in the same spot I used to be in. Being with her brother and cuddling in her bed. Interacting with her parents, spending time with her.
We have since spoke and she said that it made things awkward for them and he felt "sorry" for me because he has been there before. We have argued I called her a heartbreaker and she said "ppl shouldnt fu** with me then, treat me right" we have argued and she said she cannot help me anymore.
I am devastated I wish I could see the light out of this mess. I dont know how to live my life anymore I just feel so empty without her. She knows how much I love her. Why is she doing this?