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    Girl is confusing me, cant tell if shes interested

    so theres this girl im into. Shes pretty cool. and pretty. lol. Shes in one of my college classes, and we've gotten to talking. i got her number a couple weeks ago. and we talk on occasion.

    Ive told her a couple times we should get together, and she doesn't avoid the question, but she definitely doesn't give me an enthusiatic 'yes!'.

    Its weird though, because shes really friendly to me still and texts me actually pretty often.

    I know she hasn't really had a boyfriend before, which i guess could maybe have something to do with it....

    is she just not that interested, or is she maybe just a bit unsure/nervous? to me and my friends it seems like the latter...

    thanks!

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    She has no experience so that's why she just sits their like a stunned duck. Girls like that want a man to be a man and take the lead. You can only win with confidence. Ask her out you dummy because that IS the only way to find out if there is a romantic interest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by johnson0000 View Post
    so theres this girl im into. Shes pretty cool. and pretty. lol. Shes in one of my college classes, and we've gotten to talking. i got her number a couple weeks ago. and we talk on occasion.

    Ive told her a couple times we should get together, and she doesn't avoid the question, but she definitely doesn't give me an enthusiatic 'yes!'.

    Its weird though, because shes really friendly to me still and texts me actually pretty often.

    I know she hasn't really had a boyfriend before, which i guess could maybe have something to do with it....

    is she just not that interested, or is she maybe just a bit unsure/nervous? to me and my friends it seems like the latter...

    thanks!
    You're being too vague. "we should get together" is vague and she's being vague in return. Try "Would you like to come out to dinner with me on Thursday night?".
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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