So I just recently moved out of my boyfriend's brothers house (it was me, my bf, his brother, sis in law, and their 2 little sons) and my bf thinks i left their house because i think i'm better than them. not the case. (maybe he was speaking on behalf of them but idk) but while i was there his sis in law was giving me bad vibes. one time i walked into the house the 1st thing she say "i thought you were in illinois" and when i leave later that week she said "not to be a ********* but shouldnt you have been gone already?" no hello or goodbye basically. (during that time i wasnt living there i was visiting). also she would stare at me sometimes, cant really describe the look. and i also invited her to hang multiple times but gave up when she said "i have an adult date with the girls this sunday" casually talking to me and my bf. mind you she is 7 years older than me. so maybe she thinks im too "young" to hang, idk. she obviously wants to be the only female in the house.
My bf brother is not any better. When i told him the 1st time i was moving out he ask if i have a mattress i said yes air mattress, and he was telling me where i could buy mattresses for cheap. no problem. but the day i move out, me my bf and his sis in law were all downstairs. the bro ask me again if i have a air mattress. i said again, yes air mattress. then he gives this little snicker and say "air mattress." WTF? so now youre gonna be 2 face in front of everyone?? anyways my bf invited them over to my place to look at they were like yeah we'll come by tomorrow and check it out. and try to give you a home present. i wasnt surprised when they didnt come by, i was kind of relieved anyway. but i try and tell my boyfriend these issues and all he says is "youre thoughts are so wrong, we are ALL A FAMILY." i dont feel a family vibe with them at all. what to do?? of course his brother and sister may be doing this on purpose because they know my boyfriend will be on their side anyway. but i just want my boyfriend to SEE. i almost want an altercation to happen with them on purpose so he can SEE.