My previous experience is that when you sleep with a guy and if he was only after sex, he would just disappear.
Having said this, I slept with this guy I've been friends with for a year and afterwards he kept talking to me and acted very clingy. Either he wanted something more or he wanted to have sex again. I did (have sex again), and then afterwards he did the whole ~ slowly disappearing ~ thing where he'd gradually not talk and become distant. I asked him what's wrong, he'd just say he's busy. I saw him at a club and it seemed like he was avoiding me. So I guess he got what he wanted, he doesn't want more, maybe he needed space who knows.
But now he still keeps texting me. He'd just hit me up and act like he never disappeared on me. He doesn't talk to me for (max) 2 or 3 days then texts me.
A guy please explain to me his actions and why he's doing these things cuz it's confusing me, and what should I do. I know I can ignore him though I can't seem to let it go because i didnt get closure, so I kinda want to confront him but not sure if it's a good idea. My guy friends say that he must like me if he is still talking to me, but is just confused / doesn't know what to do, but what is the difference with this and just stringing me along?