This is directed at older men looking for love the second time around!
When you see a woman you fancy and text for a while as a Friend but "mostly" chat about sex as the common domain and then go on to arrange to date..do you expect sex on first date?
If she gives in do you feel that's too easy and won't keep you interested in that woman any longer once you get what you want.
If the woman says no..to sex on first date...will you ask for a second one bearing in mind that you get on well as friends through text with lots in common and comparable!
I can't get my head round the theory that men date for sex and women have sex to have a relationship?
I always thought men prefer the chase to the prize!