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    what was he thinking?!?

    OK I need advice from a guy lol
    I dated a guy on of for about a 1 1/2 years. I moved to Germany and we kept in touch and had great conversation (if you know what I mean ). He always told me he wasn't ready for a relationship so I thought Its OK to date again. When I finally made my new relationship official, my ex send our messages to my new bf. You can imagine how angry my bf got even if those text were before we were together. Now my question what Did my ex do that ??? And what should I do? BTW I broke up with my bf . Thank you for any advice

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    Did you break up with your bf because the ex sent some old texts making you think he still had a thing for you?

    Are you sure he meant to send them to you? I mean, if all the messages were clumped together, maybe he pushed the wrong button and accidentally sent them to you?
    Or are you pretty sure he did it intentionally.
    Intentional (imo)= he found out your dating and doesn't like it. for whatever reason. Control or love, you decide.

    why would you break up with your bf over this.?

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    He knew what he was doing . He copied them from a messenger and send to him in private message on FB! I broke up with the other for other reasons one was that he got complete angry me having still contact to my ex who lives overseas ,after we been only together for 2 weeks !

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    Looks like you dodged two bullets. Both of these guys are retards. Maybe date men you don't normally date to break this pattern.....these guys are extremely insecure.

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    I was thinking the same thing lol I just didn't understand the logic why somebody would do that. BTW the guy in the states Its the father of my little girl .

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    You sure know how to pick'um.

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    I know right . Oh well we all learn from mistakes lol

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    My first thought was that you are better off leaving your new bf. He could have got worse with time.

    And you are better off without your first one as well.

    Be careful picking the next one. And good luck next time

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    Your ex did it because he's @#$%ed in the head.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    My friends told he was jealous but it makes no sense !

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