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    i got cheated on and wish i didnt find out

    i looked through my girlfriend's phone and saw she cheated on me with two guys

    i broke up with her but no regret knowing. i feel dirty looking through her phone. part of me wishes i never did and i wouldnt know and i would be happy with her.instead i dumped her and im depressed

    why am i like this?

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    Because you're normal?

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    Quote Originally Posted by HeartIsAching View Post
    Because you're normal?
    shouldnt i be glad i found out

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    You were going to find out eventually.

    Move on.

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    Look up the five stages of grief after infidelity. One of them is denial-maybe your still in that stage..

    Would you rather live a lie? And just let her keep getting away with it? Your better off knowing the truth
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    Actually, upon reading some of your previous posts, you're not normal. You weren't together with her by your own admission. How's that cheating?

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    You should have kept your yap shut. You could have saved a fortune on whores.

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    Get help dude, seriously. Professional help.

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    Quote Originally Posted by searock View Post
    Get help dude, seriously. Professional help.
    why do i need help?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ingalls View Post
    why do i need help?
    Because of your belief that you and she were an item. It wasn't cheating because she hadn't committed to you.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by basilandthyme View Post
    Because of your belief that you and she were an item. It wasn't cheating because she hadn't committed to you.
    ok well either way i regret knowing she slept with other guys..all cuz i looked at her phone..im a idiot

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    is that wrong to regret?

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    Dude forget her, she sounds like a real waste a time. Take my advice and move on, there are better women out there.

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