girlfriend upset over snapchat?

[joebrown]

she is upst cuz shes not in my top 3...two girls are and a guy.i dont cheat on her and i aint sending nudes or getting them''

does she have a right to be mad?

im not in her top 3...she has two girls and a guy

[suddenlynothing]

This isn't an issue tell her to grow up

[TheEvilJester]

I think it is a little goofy that this is a thing these days. LOL! Though, when I first started reading your post, my thought was "Well... why wouldn't you have your girlfriend in your top three?"

However, the fact that she doesn't have you in her top 3 makes her sound pretty hypocritical. How can she get mad at you for not having her in yours when she doesn't have you in hers? The excuse can't just be "Well, you don't so I don't either." That is just immature. Either way, I don't really see why something like this matters.

[Wakeup]

she is upst cuz shes not in my top 3...two girls are and a guy.i dont cheat on her and i aint sending nudes or getting them''

does she have a right to be mad?

im not in her top 3...she has two girls and a guy

Instead of making this a pissing contest with her why don't you just ask her what she would like you to do and you tell her what you'd like her to do with the chronological order of your contacts and then just do it. **** if you are at logger-heads over something to banal as this, then your relationship isn't going to last the length of time it takes you to move her up to No. 1 anyway so learn to compromise and acquiesce to one another and quit sweating the small stuff.

SMH.

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This isn't an issue tell her to grow up

you could say the same thing to and about him.

[dickriculous]

Didn't bother reading the post, only made it to the title and started laughing my ass off.

Sorry OP, I just can't be bothered with shit like this when there are actual problems to which I can direct my attention. One bit of advice relevant to your thread title that I can leave with you before I go is this: Stop dating 14 year olds. I know it's tempting to take advantage of her naivete for some quick balls deep action but it ain't worth the jail-time brah.

You're welcome and farewell.

[michelle23]

Why isnt one social network site enough for people? I go on FB occasionally-thats it. Why is everyone on like 10 different stupod sites now.. and breaking up over them.. its retarded.

My advice: get off the computer and go bang your gf.

[TheEvilJester]

Michelle, I am right with you on that. Which is funny because I'm an IT guy. So you'd expect me to be all over the social media. Funny thing is, being such a tech guy sort of has the opposite effect on me. At the end of the day, sure I may do some YouTubing, and I tend to do some Facebooking, but beyond that I don't really want to bother. I don't need a Facebook and a Myspace and a Twitter and a SnapChat and an Alabaster Salamander, and a Cookie Monster Dance Party, and a Purple Flying Monkey.... okay some of those may have been made up. ;-) But, frankly, it is just too much to keep up with these days.

[Wakeup]

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My advice: get off the computer and go bang your gf.

Sounds like a good plan.

[somehelp4me]

What is the top three for? People you talk with the most on it people you find the hottest that you chat to? I don't use that stupid site it is just another time waster for people who are bored.

Don't have top 3's then issue solved.

[TheEvilJester]

Back before MySpace got practically burried (Seriously, does anybody even use it anymore?), they had a top 3, or a top 10, or something like that. So, if SnapChat's top 3 thinger is anything like that, it was just the way you personally organized your list. It didn't necessarily mean anything (unless you personally ascribed meaning to it) it was just the people you happened to arrange to be specifically on the top of your list. But, basically I guess most people would sort of see it as "these are my best friends/the closest people to me, hence they are on the top of my list."

[bekho]

Is snap chat a social form for underage amateur porn stars?

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[Wakeup]

Why are you looking for such a site?

[michelle23]

I think the point here is that you are in a relationship. Sometimes its not about who is right or who is wrong. Its about ensuring you both feel safe and loved and secure with no trust issues so if some stupid site is creating issues-then delete it and put your relationship first. All relationships need boundaries. Very few marriages last these days and that is because they dont have boundaries or stick to them. Chatting up other women via social networking sites is a deal breaker. If you wana do that then be single.. simple really