Cheating or not?

[smackie9]

This is all on him and his choice to make it happen. It's possible he started to hit on her first and not the other way around. There is no point in trying to figure out what had happened, it's over.....just move on.

[elsie21]

After 3 years of being with him almost daily it's a shock to be alone and the sad thing is that everybody asks me about him and I don't know what to say. I feel ashamed of what he did to me.

[KingZ]

Aw, I feel bad for elsie. The next 3-6 months are gonna suck really bad. Hang in there! It gets better!

Alright, back to trollin'.

[IndiReloaded]

Else, kudos to you for kicking him to the curb. As KZ says, the next several weeks will be hard, but it will be worth it! Think of it as a service for the next woman he dates. Mbe he'll think 2x before being a douche.

[elsie21]

Well, I thought that everything was ok, the relation ended in that night, but tonight he has texted me for the time since the argument. He said: I was waiting for some apologies from you, he told me that I have big problems with my head if I think he could go after a woman like her, he said he waited for me to make the first step for our relationship, but he sees no future if I don't fight and he is sorry to say this, but he is dumping me...and he asked me not to try to call him because it will be hard for him to get over this and he wants to forget me really soon.

I am shocked everyday, I realize that I have spent 3 years with someone that I didn't know and the sad part is that I suffer or he makes me suffer, when he should be sorry for what he did

[pcmaster]

Well maybe hes right. It was just a game for him and he didnt had any serious intentions to cheat. But still even in internet he acted disrespectful. Funny how you listened to advices and dumped him. Funny things this interned does to people. I agree about fighting part if he would be stalked by that girl. But you cant fight when guy is blaming you. That shows no love in his heart. Being guilty and still blaming others are weak. You dont blame people you love. Somwhere along the way magic faded.

[KingZ]

I am shocked everyday, I realize that I have spent 3 years with someone that I didn't know

You start to get to know someone when you've been dating for a while.

After you've been living together for a year, you see all the shades to their personality.

But you only get to fully know the true content of their character during the breakup.

[suddenlynothing]

F uck that c unt!! He sounds like the biggest t wat on the planet. That **** face is trying to emotionally blackmail you with that s hit.

I have no idea what you are like you could be an a sshole yourself, but you deserve better than that.

Do not contact him, your 22 and a woman aka MASSIVE ADVANTAGE!! I'm not going to lie your going to feel like s hit for a while but you will be able to find some else no problem.

Trust me you ladies are far better at recovering from this then men.

[IndiReloaded]

He said: I was waiting for some apologies from you, he told me that I have big problems with my head if I think he could go after a woman like her, he said he waited for me to make the first step for our relationship, but he sees no future if I don't fight and he is sorry to say this, but he is dumping me...and he asked me not to try to call him because it will be hard for him to get over this and he wants to forget me really soon.

Ahahaha, what a chode this guy is. I hope you laugh in his face, next chance you get. He's a clown. You are much better off without him. The whole dumping comment is him trying to salvage his ego. Just laugh it, and him, off. Also, block his texts.

[elsie21]

Ahahaha, what a chode this guy is. I hope you laugh in his face, next chance you get. He's a clown. You are much better off without him. The whole dumping comment is him trying to salvage his ego. Just laugh it, and him, off. Also, block his texts.

I never replied him back, it's still weird to be without him, it's like I have to reset my whole life, but I will never want to be back with him. I hope I will never see him, but he asked me to let him at least once a month to visit our dog which stays with me...

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F uck that c unt!! He sounds like the biggest t wat on the planet. That **** face is trying to emotionally blackmail you with that s hit.

I have no idea what you are like you could be an a sshole yourself, but you deserve better than that.

Do not contact him, your 22 and a woman aka MASSIVE ADVANTAGE!! I'm not going to lie your going to feel like s hit for a while but you will be able to find some else no problem.

Trust me you ladies are far better at recovering from this then men.

I hope so, I have never been through a break up, but it's better without him, especially that I discovered his real face...

[IndiReloaded]

I never replied him back, it's still weird to be without him, it's like I have to reset my whole life, but I will never want to be back with him. I hope I will never see him, but he asked me to let him at least once a month to visit our dog which stays with me...

Add "controlling" to the list... just ignore him entirely, Elsie. Texts, dog-visits and all.