Originally Posted by
will5554
okay so here is my situation i met this really awesome girl, i'v gone on a few dates with her and we have a lot in common, she told me that she likes me a lot and i told her the same. so a week ago i asked her to be my girlfriend and she said that she couldn't answer my question right now, she then went on to tell me that she wasn't looking for a relationship right now because we are both still in high school and she doesn't want a " high school relationship". she said that her previous ones had all started fast and ended short. then she told me if i want to wait till we both graduate ( in 2 months) she would still be interested and would answer my question then. so i'm willing to wait for her to be ready and i told her so, but its just weird because we hangout together, hold hands and kiss/ makeout outside of school. but at school i have to just act like i'm her friend. it also bugs the shit out of me when other guys flirt with her and i feel like i can't do or say anything about it...
any advice would be appreciated
Try hanging out with her less and flirting with other girls more. You're wasting your time "waiting" for someone when you're so young. Soon you'll be going to Uni and then she'll want y'all to wait until you have your degrees before she stops flirting with other boys while you wait and wait and wait.
Don't do it.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion