I been dealing with this guy for a year. We broke up in September over a bad fight we had. So two months went by and as I was getting over him and started to move on with my life, he popped back up and started texting again and then started back messing around for like couple more months and we end up breaking it off again and he texts me here and there, when HE wants.I do reply to his texts sometimes but I decided now to do the no contact and today he text and asked can he see me because it's his bday, so I ignored him and he text back" I guess not". I mean what are his intentions? Is he playing mind games? He's hot and cold, so can someone please try and help me figure out what can be going on with him