Confused or dorm?

[cool breeze]

A lady I was dating “not too serious because I had a girlfriend" now has a new man. We dated, moved in together and I left her because she was stressing me out so much about my girlfriend. Since she kept accusing me, few months after I left, I went back to my girlfriend but things did not work. I REALIZED that "the not so serious girl", was really good for me. She dated somebody (JOBLOW), left him for me, and then left me and dating him right now. I leave in a different state but when I go to her state, I put up at her place. She and her boo are in the same state. We talk like lovers, she calls me once or twice a day, when she has problems, talks to me about everything, ignores my call when she is with JOBLOW, told ME SHE HAD MAD FEELINGS FOR HIM. Don't get me wrong I know I was wrong on bouncing but I need to get to the bottom of this because it really eats me up inside. I do a lot for her because I love her dearly and she knows that, but I cannot let her feel it's ok to date another guy whilst she leads me on. I just need advice/opinions on what to do and how to deal with this second best or puppet on the string thing I got going on?

( NO SEXUAL RELATIONS FOR THE PAST YEAR)

[Wakeup]

I love how she plays you. Well done, sista! O.o

[ihaveaquestion]

If you want to help her with her problems do it because you want to but you don't expect anything back. Otherwise you are not giving to her, anyway. You can tell her you'll only be her guy if it is exclusive. But if she won't do it that way I'd just cut her off of the relationship aspect altogether. Just be a friend to her. Plus you dated someone else while you were with her, right? I guess this feels normal for her. She's not ready to pick, either.