My relationship is a mess

[Staceylove]

Hi My name is Stacey, and I’m going through a lot in my life lately, I feel like I will never be happy again , I lost hope and I feel so desperate. My love life is a mess. At a certain point I felt so happy and I thought that I found the right person to be with, then all of a sudden he changed, he is not the same anymore. he got so distant, he doesn’t talk to me anymore about anything and I don’t know what is going on in his life, and that makes me feel so sad especially when I remember how close we were to each other. Now I feel like he is a stranger to me and I’m not sure how to deal with him, I’m also afraid he could have someone else in his life, he could be cheating on me. I don’t know what shall I do about it? And from where I can get help?

[basilandthyme]

Hi Stacey, there's a few questions which need to be asked before I can advise.

1. why you're still with him when you're so unsatisfied. Are you married or have kids with him?
2. how long have you been together?
3. how long did it take him to change?
4. what do your friends and family think of him?
5. have you ever questioned your love for him? If not, give yourself permission to really think about it

[michelle23]

Stacey its kinda obvious what you should do. Break up with him.