Would this turn you off or on

[Pope Matthew]

So if you met a cute guy that you were really drawn to and He had a nice body and well endowed genitals and as soon as your relationship begins he starts texting you pictures of himself nude or penis pics would that turn you off or on? Would you lose a lot of respect for the guy?

[basilandthyme]

Penis pics. Perhaps you could start by explaining why guys send photos of their dicks

[Pope Matthew]

I do to prove myself. I'm an insecure guy in many ways but am hung well and have a nice body so am not insecure about that part of me. However, intimacy, kissing, sex, close relationships, and making ends meet financially scare me to death.

It's also a fetish. I like it when women see me. I'm not bragging because I know that is immature. People who are modest are better than people like myself (*Attention Whore* ).

[Canada Goose]

Pope Matthew,

In the most polite way I can express this, i beleive you should work on your self confidence.

It sounds to me like you're very unsure of yourself and ill tell you one thing: women can smell insecurity on a man... and it doesn't smell good.

Work on realizing you're self worth. Don't be clouded by the physical because when all the physical intensity and passion has tamed itself you had better like whom you're with.

In regards to your question: Yes I believe this would freak a woman out.

Maybe I'm just a bit uptight... but i digress: different strokes for different folks!

best of luck to you!

[chinagirl]

Yes, I would be turned off. I don't think women in general are turned on by the size of a man's genitalia. Just like my ex husband used to say, it is not the size of the ocean that matters, it's the motion of the waves.

[searock]

Turned off. Creepy.

[Wakeup]

So if you met a cute guy that you were really drawn to and He had a nice body and well endowed genitals and [B]as soon as your relationship begins [/B]he starts texting you pictures of himself nude or penis pics would that turn you off or on? Would you lose a lot of respect for the guy?

Just met him and we hadn't established any kind of serious relationship yet? Ugh. He's got mental problems of some sort at worst and a total lack of boundaries at least. Definitely I'd be turned off.

Men who do that kind of thing to women they've just met are doing it for their own kink. Certainly not the woman's.

[basilandthyme]

In short, it's a NO from me too. It's only OK if we already have a good rapport and I invite you to send the pictures. Invite being the operative word....as opposed to you asking if it's OK

*ack....just realised that I'm writing me and you. This is hypothetical. I don't want to see YOUR pictures

[vashti]

Turn OFF. Women tend to like the feel of a man's penis more than the appearance.

[michelle23]

I think it would make most girls think your only interested in sex. Maybe its better to wait awhile until you know shes comfortable with sexting

[Wakeup]

Yes and when all the sores have healed. O.O

[Pencil]

I'd lose respect .. especially this early in the relationship

[smackie9]

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