Can I have him or is he always gonna be her's

[kee]

Okay so I know this is kinda a bad situation but long story short I'm in love with another woman's husband although that sounds horrible it's a story behind everything.....I have known this guy for a while wE actually dated back in high school but lost touch and went our separate ways. We recently came back in touch and he was all how he want to talk and show me the man he has became I knew he was involved with someone that he recently had broken up with but later threw our convo he told me they was actually married but he was ready to call it quits so during there separation we talked more and more but in the back of my mind I knew his situation wasn't over but I ignored it and continued to see him more and more then one day he told me he was falling hard for me and wanted more in my mind I thinkn this man is married what am I doing....but I couldn't deny I was.loving being around him and couldn't imagine how I would feel without him but I responded I wanted to give him time to decide what he really wanted and was his marriage really over and he told me it was but I wasn't willing to give In that easy I wanted to be sure so I still said no..... He was okay with that and we still hung out then one day the phone calls stop and he was no where to be found.... so I called and called nothing then later I get a message on fb from the wife telling me she heard about me but wanted me to stay away from her husband and they was working on they marriage I.responded with a simple ok I co Guild understand her feelings and he wasn't mind to discuss so I let it go but that didn't stop me thinking bout him and wanting to see him always....I felt so empty but I knew it was all my fault but later the day I receive a text sayn sorry and how he was confused on what to do how he owe it to his wife to wrk it out but couldn't deny his feelings for me we talk and I could understand so basically we still hang out and yes we are sexually involved but yet he still hers so hers my question do I wait around could he one day be mine or do I walk away and try to forget my feeling for him I'm so confused although I dnt want anything too serious right now I can't continue to ruin there marriage with my selfish acts

[chinagirl]

What the hell is wrong with you? Can't you see that this guy is playing you? He has no feelings for you. He just wants to have sex with you whenever he can't get it from the wife. If you want to be sloppy seconds, by all means, continue your relationship with him. But my suggestion, have some pride and dignity and tell him to go **ck himself next time he calls or texts you.

[michelle23]

One rule: stay away from taken people. They are emotionally unavailable whether they want out of the marriage/relationship or not. Your not any more special than any of the other "other men/women" who are silly enough to play this game and you will get hurt. And what makes you think he wont do the same thing to you if he does leave his wife for you? Your playing with fire lady. If he can do this to his wife (a woman who has given him her life, trust, kids etc and who he promised to honour, cherish, adore and remain faithful to) then imagine what he could do to you.

[kee]

Yea u guys are right I feel stupid thanks tho

[IndiReloaded]

Cheaters are fundamentally selfish. Mad Men's Don Draper. Move on.