Advices needed..

[Zunic11]

Hi.. I want advices regarding love/relationship matters...ived known this guy through his mother.. He was in prison and we did met during visits few times... While we got to know each other through visits and letters..i started to like him.. Yes it may be weird but i just dont know how to explain the feelings was... Ived went through nearly 8years plus of relationship and we went on our separate ways..ever since then,of coz i cant forget my ex-bf and it took time of coz to slowly forget him...it took me 2years plus to move on til suddenly my heart are open for him.. Weird though coz theres other guys but i dont have the feelings for them til i met tis guy... We shared our feelings through visits and letters...and agreed to be together... But recently,when he is release,he is different person ive known...i sensed tat..not me alone,even his sister also... N i did asked him if he had anything to ask or say,he said nothing... I knew there is something wrong somewhere.. Finally,he msged me and told me tat he cant go on with me anymore,he cant cheat his feelings tat he still love his ex-gf & he waiting for his ex-gf to b release also...his ex wants to b with him n he cant forgets her n the time they spent time together.. I was heartbroken and cried... Speechless... Shocked..undescribeble... Coz through letters,he told me to wait for him patiencely n he surely wont go back with his ex... Many words giving me hope on him... I accept for who he is & give him chances to b better person...but when he told me tat in a just a day we spent time together,in a min my heart totally crushed... How can he just say n do tat to me plus i even told him before from beginning to think throughly before making harsh decisions.. He been ignoring me ever since and i dont contact him at the moments... But i still love him..im trying to be strong and find ways to forget him... Its just unfair to me... Its took me sometime to frget and accept someone but got crushed in secs.. Pls help.. Should i totally move on.. Or let it be til he finds me or wat other thing i should do... In this matter his mum n his sides knew abt this and totally speechless..n hoping to me to be patience and his mum will talk to him..but i told his mum to let him be n decides wat he want..coz its abt feelings which people cant force nor predict...but his side did told me tat they dont like his ex gf coz of absurb behaviour n etc... She is pretty though but materialistik..I just dont know wat i should do...? Should i focus on other thing and slim more and make myself more pretty for him? Or just be the way i am but just drop some inches? But doesnt tat means he goes for appearance more than characters? Is there any chances to win his heart back?

[basilandthyme]

And this is why you should never wait for a person. Sorry, the only thing you can do is learn from your mistakes.

[Wakeup]

Make yourself slimmer for YOU not for some ex con who conned you the whole time he was behind bars. Keep busy working on yourself and being happy in your own skin. If you have confidence and self-worth/esteem, you'd NEVER find some asswipe who's in jail attractive in the LEAST. You'd certainly not put yourself on hold for one.