I have seen several posts about this but no one every sea to find a solution. So basically, I have no sex drive at all. I have a girlfriend that I love but don't have a desire for sex. Some people immediately ask if I'm gay if I post stuff like this and the answer is no, I have no feeling or attractions for men.
A few years ago I would have hard erections and would think about sex constantly. Me and my girlfriend fool around sometimes but it's really difficult for me to get and maintain an erection sometimes, and if I do get one its never rock hard like it should be. We had sex once, for maybe like 20 seconds, but I got a lot ~softer after penetration. That was the only time I've actually had sex.
I have depression and have been takin meds for it but it never seems to help me, or my sex drive, at all.
Anybody have any idea what I should do? I am 19, and I don't really want to hve a conversation about this to my mom, and don't exactly want to tell her I need to get my testosterone levels checked, even though that's what it might have to result to.