My girlfriend and I have been dating four months now. Shes 19, turns 20 next week, and im 22. Last night we had a fight and im hoping you guys can help me make sense of it.
For two months now I have been asking to meet her parents. Everytime I would ask she would say "I don't know maybe" and then she would start giving me one worded responses until I switch the subject.
Shes graduating from a community college in 3 weeks. And last night I brought it to her attention that the graduation is going to be awkward for me because she hasn't introduce me to her parents. Her response floored me. She said that if her parents asked who I was she was going to tell them that I was a friend. And then she proceded to tell me not to tell them that we were dating. And that I wasnt allowed to give her my present to her in front of her parents.
I put my foot down and told her thats completely wrong. I then asked why she hasn't told her parents about me. She just keeped saying sorry.
After a few hours I cooled down and accepeted her apology. She asked me what she should do. I told her that she should start mentioning me to her parents and stop keeping me a seceret. All she said was okay.
After that I cheered her up and had her laughing and smiling again.
This morning I sent her the usual good morning text and she told me good morning back. She added that she didn't sleep well. I asked if she had a lot on her mind and she said maybe. I asked if she wanted to talk about it and she said no. I replied back with that when she felt comfortable talking about it im here for her.
Now here's the problem I sent that text 8 hours ago. This is the longest we have gone without talking to each other. Im nervous as to what shes thinking.
So what do you guys think?